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What Makes Wrong Wrong?

admin — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 11:16:07 +0000

Many Christians are still confused if white lies are also considered as a lie. Well, as the name implies, literally, it is still a lie. And lying is not a good thing. Therefore, white lies are still sins. If you are familiar with the saying “The Ends Does Not Justifies the Means”, this is very much applicable in making white lies.

Therefore, it is clear that lies, whatever color you put into it, does not make it unsinful. But what really makes things right and wrong? This is a question I had in my mind when I was still 6 years old. And I believe I have the answer on it now. If there are standards of what is considered right and wrong, who made those standards? They are just people who are also subject to confusion regarding what is right and what is wrong. What is right to some could be wrong to someone else.

How can we really tell if things we are doing are right or if it is wrong? The answer to this, I believe, is inside each of us. If you think this thing is right, and you feel secured in yourself that there is nothing harmful to you in this decision you have made, then it may really be right. But if this thing is bothering you inside or if it gives you some feeling of guilt, you will sense that it is wrong and not the right thing to do. Later on, you will be sure that it is wrong because of the outcome.

Reaching your Impossible Dreams

admin — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 15:08:28 +0000

One of the biggest dreams for people is to be successful. Everybody wants to reach their dreams. However, reaching their dreams is not an easy task for many people. One of the common reasons why many people fail to get the result they wanted and reach success is their lack of knowledge on how to do things. Many people failed because they don’t know how to achieve their goals in life.

For you to be able to achieve your goals, you need to create a vision. If you don’t know what to achieve, it would be impossible for you to achieve them since you don’t know what to achieve.

Setting your goal is one of the most important among the techniques on achieving your goals. Write down your goals and make sure that they are detailed even with deadlines. Paste your list somewhere you can see it most of the time so you will be reminded often. Creating a plan is important even to engineers and architects. It is like a blue print which you will follow. After you have done all these three, it is now time to act according on your plan.

Changing your Habit for Success

admin — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 05:06:43 +0000

Sometimes there are habits in us that are not serving us and our success. These are habits that need to be broken. It could be empowering if we would take a look at our selves and list our habits. Check on those habits if they are serving our success or not. If not, perhaps it is now time to change those habits.

It is tough to ask yourself regarding habits that are not working for your success. However, it is a great idea for you can have the opportunity to change your self. Once changes are made, you can be assured that there would be no things blocking your success. Sometimes these bad habits in us are the same things that blocks success from entering our lives.

You can have a crab mentality which you don’t really noticed but many people are telling you that you have this bad habit. Since you already have an idea and this habit is not doing any well on your success, you can review your self, prior to change, on the habits that you need to change.